I am more than my relationship status
For those that don't know, I'm currently single. This little fact has been sitting on my facebook page for a little while, since it seemed to make sense to keep my profile fairly accurate even though I don't tend to use the service as much as most others.
I have a problem though. Since changing my status awhile ago, every time I use facebook, I have advertisements for dating websites and singles parties.... on every page. While this wouldn't normally bug me (since I tend to ignore all ads anyways) the part that annoys me is that this is the ONLY type of advertising I am served. How about some ads about upcoming movies or concerts and events that are happening in my area? How about some of the standard penis enlargements, porn and herbal treatment ads? Travel ads to get me out of here? how about some military propaganda - shoot those terrorists?? How about anything other than just, "you're single, want to meet other sufferers"?
Being single is not a disease and it doesn't really bug me that I am currently not seeing anyone. So why does Facebook seem to think its such an important void in my life that it must fill it? I've even considered changing my status just to stop the ads, surprisingly it just changed the focus of them to my newly changed relationship status. Not to mention having to explain to all my friends that I actually am still single and the facebook just couldn't accept me for that.
I am more than my relationship status and being single is not a crime.
If clicking on the picture of the hot girl, who is "in my area and looking for a good time", actually got me a date with her sometime this month, then maybe I wouldn't mind it so much..... Facebook Bug Report!
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I am a larger guy and seem to only get the "drop that weight" or "rock hard abz"..
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Submitted by Mark (not verified) on Thu, 16/04/2009 - 3:34pm.if you have been clicking on hot guys, you would be getting more results...
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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 28/06/2009 - 7:03am.I was forwarded a link to your blog because I asked yesterday on my own blog whether this was a unique bugbear of women... seems not! :)
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Submitted by Emily (not verified) on Thu, 16/07/2009 - 11:03am.Those seedy dating/singles companies know that Facebook advertising to singles gets a good return. As long as they're the ones prepared to pay the most for your profile views, then that's what you'll see.
Facebook could address this by investing in a classification system for advertising, reporting the click-thru for those types and charging more for ad types that historically get the best click-through. Does anyone with more expertise than me in advertising know if this is commonplace?
If they do, it could simply be that only dating/singles sites are prepared to pay for your ad slots.
But if dating/singles ads aren't getting a good click-thru (because you hate them), the system should report that lower click-thru for that ad type. Because you're not clicking through on ads, the pricing should start to drop until it pays for someone else to start buying your page view. Natural, profit-seeking ad rotation :)
Thoughts?
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Submitted by David Soul (not verified) on Mon, 20/07/2009 - 3:09pm.I just thought Facebook advertising was like TV after 11pm!
I was forwarded your blog by another single friend who said she thought you should start a FB page!
I have advertised on FB and found it to be effective - just stationery nothing more!
I agree David, surely with all of the info FB collects and analyses they would have this info and if the market was like us then they would not have click through. However, there may be high click through from other FB members hence the ads??
The thing with FB advertising is that it relies on the advertiser to input selection criteria and all users to have filled out every area on their profiles so the criteria can be matched.
I for one do not have every piece of info filled out on my profile and am sure I am not alone.
I agree Ryan, being single is not a disease and you have highlighted yet another area FB needs to work on! :-)
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Submitted by Nancy (not verified) on Tue, 28/07/2009 - 9:38am.super post,have the same problem,wish all the best from Poland
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Submitted by bukmacher (not verified) on Mon, 16/11/2009 - 7:30am.Don't worry Ryan - that used to upset me too until I had a birhtday and they immediately started replacing some of the "meet single guys" ads with "freeze your eggs" ads.
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Submitted by Sal (not verified) on Wed, 16/12/2009 - 11:13am.Want a bigger penis ? Ohhh sorry, ya that definately gets old.
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Submitted by jerry fields (not verified) on Mon, 01/02/2010 - 12:09pm.Sometimes we must accept the fact that facebook is now a breeding grounds for internet marketers and spammers.
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Submitted by pick up japanese girls (not verified) on Thu, 25/02/2010 - 4:43pm.umm i agree your all comments.Being single is not a disease and it doesn't really bu anyone in this world. Anyone in this world is at one time gets single. Times will come to be double and go dating. Its all world's rule so don't worry dude it happens.
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Submitted by deepesh2002 (not verified) on Tue, 01/06/2010 - 9:07pm.Facebook is like Television without the Tivo, you can't skip the ads.
Television provides you something for free(your favourite shows). In exchange advertisers get the opportunity to advertise to your demographic.
Same thing with Facebook, you are provided a free place to host your photos, videos, and to connect with others. In exchange Facebook sells your demographic(single, male) to the highest advertiser bidder.
Just think of it this way. If fly fishing books ads sold better than dating sites ads, then all you would see is fishing book ads.
You should not take it personally, blame all the other singles clicking on those dating ads, making them profitable.
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Submitted by gordoncasada on Wed, 23/06/2010 - 10:49am.Now that is something wild. How do they manage to serve ads based on your status. Facebook is something else.
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